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Couples who share a bank account have stronger relationships, study says




  • A new study suggests that couples who have a joint bank account have healthier connections.
  • The results are particularly true for people in the U.S and the U.K.
  • However, the same results were not proven for people who live in individualistic societies, like Japan. 

It’s been said that deciding whether or not to combine your finances with your partner can make or destroy a relationship. After all, it takes a certain level of maturity and compassion to open a joint bank account, and even more budgeting skills to keep it open.

According to a new study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, couples who do may really create healthier connections.

Lead author Emily Garbinsky, an associate professor of marketing and management communication at Cornell University, discovered that couples who actively combined their money had more good interactions and indications of effective communication than those who did not.

Their word choices alone indicated a high level of mutual contentment, as they used more “we,” “us,” and “our” rather than “I,” “me,” and “my.” Terms associated with shared connection also appeared more frequently, such as “agree,” “connect,” “friend,” “kindness,” “listen,” and “peace.”

Garbinsky wrote:

“We expected pooled finances to increase one’s level of dependence on their partner, as well as align the couple’s (financial) interests and goals, — all things “ssociated with high levels of relationship quality.”

Researchers also examined survey data from groups in the United States, the United Kingdom, and Japan to see if cultural variations influence how couples see money. They discovered that partners in the two Western countries were more likely to be satisfied with fund sharing than partners in Japan.

Garbinsky believes the difference in strength is attributable to the fact that the United States and the United Kingdom are individualistic cultures, whereas Japan is a collectivist culture. Individualistic cultures emphasize “I,” whereas collectivist societies have a social attitude and think in terms of “us.”

Individualists experience a stronger beneficial impact when adopting a shared perspective — simply because they don’t generally contemplate the benefits of having shared aims — whereas group thinkers are already used to this dynamic.


Because individuals in collectivist societies, such as Japan, are already acclimated to focusing on their partners, their relationships may not benefit as much from the increase in reliance compared to when couples in the United States and the United Kingdom do.

Knowing who gets the most from financial pooling — and why — can help professionals better steer couples toward happiness.

“Research in this area can help couples both decide how to organize their finances to maximize relationship quality and ultimately improve their well-being,” Garbinsky concluded.

Source: New York Post



  1. CPO Bill

    November 17, 2022 at 7:50 pm

    Sharing bank accounts for over 50 years, never an issue!

    • Doug Litchfield

      December 6, 2022 at 6:35 am

      Only 48 and counting for us. We have been coerced into sharing with two other unwanted parties who get extra greedy some election years. Haven’t found any annulment papers to neutralize these leeches.

      • Carolyn

        December 6, 2022 at 7:21 am

        Brilliant response! Only 38 years for us, but same on the annoying leeches!

  2. Jim Fifield

    December 6, 2022 at 4:20 pm

    I had a joint account with my lover companion/ wife
    For 10 years. She started drawing money out of it and putting it in her own account one month after we started cohabiting! This went on for 9 years as I
    Never thought for one second she would take money from our joint account and deposit it in her individual account for her own “ personal “ use.
    I was really naive. Under divorce law, a wife cannot be guilty of stealing from her husband!

  3. R C Albin

    December 9, 2022 at 11:05 am

    Absolutely… WRONG! No contest! Separate accounts provides much less conflict re: how each person spends the money. And… also…. protects the other person and the family from a “spendthrift” partner.

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Pregnant Teen Says She’s Carrying Evil Spirit’s Baby



In a Nutshell:

  • A 19-year-old Colombian woman, claiming to have never been with a man, asserts she was impregnated by an ‘evil spirit’, sparking a spirited debate on social media.
  • Following strange dreams and a sense of supernatural presences, along with her missing periods, a visit to the gynecologist confirmed her pregnancy.
  • Despite some skepticism and accusations of her fabricating the story, there are also supporters who believe her claims, citing they’ve heard similar stories before.

When it comes to tales of the unexpected, this one is surely one for the books.

A 19-year-old woman from Colombia, who says she has never been romantically involved with a man, now insists that her current pregnancy is the work of an ‘evil spirit.’

A supernatural Casanova, if you will.

The Colombian teen has been stirring up all kinds of chatter on Latino social media after she boldly told TV Malambo, a local media outlet, that she’s convinced her pregnancy is a supernatural event.

According to her, she began having strange dreams and experienced eerie presences in her room.

Then suddenly, she stopped having her period, leading her mother to rush her to a gynecologist, who declared her pregnant.


She made the claim inn a statement that almost reads like a novel.

“I have not been with any man, suddenly I stopped menstruating and my mother took me to the health center for a check-up and there I found out that I got pregnant.”

The young woman accepts that her story is difficult to swallow and confesses that she herself is puzzled about her mysterious pregnancy.

However, this hasn’t stopped the internet from erupting into a spirited (pun intended) debate.

Some skeptics suggest she concocted the story to dodge parental wrath, while others back her claim, swearing they’ve heard of similar instances.

One supporter commented, “She is telling the truth, I have heard of other cases like this. The last thing her father or mother should do is kick her out of the family home.”

It should be noted that in Colombia, teen pregnancies are more common than in most countries worldwide.

But this is definitely not your average teen pregnancy story.


In fact, it’s worth noting that this isn’t the first ‘supernaturally-induced’ pregnancy we’ve heard about.

Just last year, an Indonesian woman claimed she got pregnant after a gust of wind swept through her.

With stories like these, who needs Netflix for entertainment?


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The ‘Amazon Jungle Book’: 4 Kids Survive 40-Day Ordeal After Plane Crash [Video]



In a Nutshell:

  • Four indigenous children, ranging in age from 11 months to 13 years old, were found in the Amazon jungle 40 days after the crash of their small plane.
  • Their survival is hailed as a miracle, and it’s noted that they must have survived on available resources in the jungle.
  • Search efforts involved tracking dogs, the military, and indigenous communities, with footprints believed to belong to one of the children aiding the successful rescue mission.

In a real-life saga that puts any Hollywood survival drama to shame, four indigenous kids, including a baby, made it through a whopping 40 days in the Amazon jungle after their plane crashed.

These extraordinary children, members of the Uitoto Indigenous community and aged from 11 months to 13 years, went from “missing presumed gnawed” to “survivors extraordinaire” in a twist that had Colombian President, Gustavo Petro, lauding them as national heroes.

“They themselves are an example of survival that will go down in history,” Petro declared at a news conference.

“Today, those children are the children of peace and the children of Colombia.”

Their health remains a mystery, with doctors yet to make that call.

“Their health must be frail,” speculated Petro, making us all picture these tykes going full ‘Bear Grylls’ to survive.


Petro also said, “We need to see into their mental health.”

The children, identified as Lesly, Soleiny, Tien, and baby Cristin, survived when their plane, in an unfortunate game of ‘nose goes,’ buried its snout in the Colombian jungle after an engine failure.

While the wreckage was discovered two weeks later with three unfortunate adult casualties, the quartet was nowhere to be found.

In a plot twist that would have hardened detectives smiling, footprints believed to belong to one of the kids sparked hope they were still alive.

The search continued with tracking dogs, armed forces, and local Indigenous communities, proving once and for all that you should never bet against local knowledge when it comes to jungles.

President Petro took time to credit both the military and the indigenous communities.

“The work between armed forces and Indigenous communities — who obviously know the jungle better than we do — that work was successful,” he said.


It was a show of unity that makes the phrase “It takes a village” seem a bit inadequate.

In the end, it was the indigenous communities and military who found the kids, marking a happy ending to a tale that will no doubt be remembered as the ‘Miracle of the Amazon.’

Hollywood, are you listening?


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Don’t Try This at Home: YouTuber’s Deadly Jellyfish Soup Stirs the Pot [Video]



In a Nutshell:

  • Popular Japanese YouTuber ‘homosapi’ stirred up a controversy by cooking and eating a broth made from Portuguese Man-o-Wars, a marine organism known for its deadly sting, in a video for his over one million subscribers.
  • While the YouTuber reported no ill effects and described the taste as similar to scallops, marine experts strongly cautioned against trying to recreate the risky recipe, due to the potential for remaining toxicity and risk of inhaling poisonous fumes during cooking.
  • Despite having a health professional present during the stunt, homosapi’s video has sparked a debate about responsible content creation, and experts are urging the public to avoid attempting to cook or consume dangerous marine creatures like the Man-o-War.

In what might be the next “do not try this at home” viral sensation, popular Japanese YouTuber ‘homosapi’ has stirred the pot, quite literally, with a marine menace: the Portuguese Man-o-War.

To his over one million subscribers, he served up a video of himself cooking and slurping a broth made from these dangerous dwellers of the deep.

Known for their venomous sting capable of immobilizing or even killing its prey, the Portuguese Man-o-War is not your usual soup du jour.

However, homosapi was not deterred, having been inspired by adventurous eaters who allegedly claimed the venomous creature’s broth was as delectable as the finest delicacy.

Seeking not only the thrill of the culinary dare but also the promise of viral views, homosapi and his friends embarked on a beach trip, hunting for washed-up Man-o-Wars.

Once they’d bagged their jelly-like prizes, the YouTuber proceeded to cook them into a wobbly blob.

He added veggies, sauces, and a suspect pinch of MSG before diving in with a daring taste test.


His verdict?

It’s somewhat scallop-esque, with no apparent ill effects.

While the YouTuber may have taken the phrase “anything for views” quite literally, marine life experts were quick to condemn the stunt.

Warning the public against recreating this risky recipe, they emphasized that while a boiled Man-o-War might lose some of its toxicity, there’s no guarantee that the potent, protein-based poison is completely neutralized.

Shuhei Ikeda, a jellyfish breeder at the Kamo Aquarium, also highlighted the danger of inhaling toxic fumes during the cooking process, which could result in serious allergies and breathing issues.

In an attempt to counterbalance the wild stunt, homosapi revealed that a health professional was on hand throughout the precarious cooking show.

Nonetheless, the video continues to raise eyebrows and spark debates about responsible content creation.

So, folks, let’s stick to more traditional soup ingredients, shall we?


Leave the Man-o-Wars to the marine experts, not the daredevil YouTubers.


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